"The War on Hoes."

"Scallywags & TwatWaffles."

PSA : Language is, "foul," - to some. I make no apologies.

If folks want to provoke some verbal ammo from me, by choosing to cure their boredom by an apparent attempt at mastering foolery? Then, here I fuckin' go.  This one is pretty clearly personal. This is me, gettin' all, "fuck ya'll hoes," over a variety of different situations. Fact is, i'm going to re-affirm that I don't like hoes or those who support and enable hoes and I don't need anybody to agree with me, I know i'm right. So, yeah. This particular blog will be some entertaining shit for my spectators. Shit's about to get real....Get cha some popcorn.

Two things that will never change? The drug problem in America, and the over abundance of hoes. See, when it comes to hoes - you have to know how to protect yourself, the people around you and your situations from them. If you don't know how, and the people around you either don't know how, or just don't want to know how - then enjoy all the fuckery infested booshwa at your door step. I'm not so concerned with the, "War Against Drugs," - i'll let the government keep brainstorming to cease something that helped create & that will never end. I'm more concerned with the, "War on Hoes..."

In order for a broad to earn her title as a hoe, she has to focus on her hoe activity. ( LUDAAA! lol. ) In order for a broad to earn her title as home wrecker, she has to pop into someone elses relationship, and someone IN that relationship has to permit her to do so. ( Which makes these silly bitches feel validated and victorious, but what did they really accomplish? What did they really win? I hope they didn't think it was respect or good karma. ) In the, "War on Hoes," you first have to grasp that hoes have a particular set of skills, skills that you have to be educated on, otherwise you'll never be able to protect yourself from them. You have to have a zero tolerance for hoes, and not let people have a direct influence on your life that embrace or accept hoes as people. They're the type of breed that's only source of self esteem, comes from the attention that any man, of any relationship status, will give her, vaginally. So, if your man can't repel these hoes? Then you need to repel that man. You have to want to ward off hoes, to ward off hoes. And anybody keeping a door open for hoes to effect your life, is an accomplice to the charge of fuckery WITH these smut buckets & are pro-hoes. & kindly get THEE FUCK outta here with that shit.

In terms of having a relationship, hoes can never be tolerated - ever. If you let some shit slide in your relationship, that has anything to do with a hoe? Thank yourself, because as soon as you do that, it's like a radar goes off to the rest of their kind, almost like a repulsive mating call, and the rest of 'em will come runnin' like a junkie for attention, too. That's what's so twisted about hoes. They don't set out to find somebody to love, someone to call their own - they set out to get temporary attention, sexually, and in hopes of robbing others of happiness, by playing a position in a relationship they were never genuinely welcomed into. It's sick really. As a woman, even having friends that are hoes, is a danger. Because it happens, you can turn your back for 2 seconds, and next thing you know that friend, became that hoe, who is trying to get at your man. There's too many anonymous hoes already. So, don't invite more of 'em into your World. 

In a majority of cases, it's a man that is fucking stupid & drops their guard and let's these hoes hoe-y-ness into their relationships. No, not because he wants to be with her, but because hoes know how to play with a mans head, and yeah, some of 'em just couldn't grasp loyalty if it would save the world. The thing about the men that feel validated by the attention they get from these hoes is - they don't realize the attention they're getting, a fuck load of other dudes have got too. Do they really think they're the only one getting attention from that bitch? Or the only one who was all up in it, that week? Fuck, that day? It's like two species infested with insecurity blending, it's fucking gross. And it's pathetic. It's very simple - hoes can't be trusted. No, they can't be good friends. No, they don't all of a sudden walk away from the hoe life... Fuckin' dick junkies.

Know what? "Smut," is a more appropriate word, because these bitches volunteer their shit, FREELY. Like, soup kitchens. Word. If a woman can't respect herself enough to hold herself in a higher regard? Than us other women, have no use for them. We just have to know how to point 'em out, recognize them and be aware of those types of men that help 'em along. None of them are the types of people you want in your life. As we get older, we have enough trials and tribulations without having to deal with people who authentically set out to make our lives harder. These dudes can save that shit for the next bitch, and these bitches can save that shit for a dumb bitch. Because it ain't us. 

Ultimately, i've dealt with my fair share of hoes & I think they should all be burned at the stake, like the Witch trials. Or, I think they should market themselves, because there is enough insecure and ignorant men to pump both their ego & they're va-jay - and there should be a "hoe tax," which should go towards the deficit & at least hoes would be good for something..... 

Like I said, two things that will never change - America's drug problem and the over abundance of hoes. HOWEVER, being part of the, "War on Hoes," is vital to your life and your health, and if you don't squad up, and rise up against these types of disgusting people? Then, that's your bad. I wish you all the best of luck, and remember - they are the enemy. LOL.

"The Power of Lessons Learned."

"The Power of Lessons Learned."

     Different situations/experiences offer different lessons. It's up to you on whether you're willing to learn those lessons and apply them. I've learned over the years that I would continually make the same certain mistakes, and expect different results. ( Which Albert fucking Einstein said is the definition of insanity, so there ya have it. ) If you expect to make progress as a person, in your life, in any area, you have to be willing to learn and have to be willing to change. However, something you don't have to necessarily do, is force yourself to adapt to something that you don't agree with or want happening to you, or to your life.

   That being said, "hoping for the best," sometimes can literally be, "hoping for a miracle," and you are never doing a service to yourself by ignoring the reality in front of your face. It's never beneficial to instill deeply rooted beliefs into people, ideas, things or desires that haven't shown you that it's realistic to drop those beliefs on. I'm not saying that people, or even that I am wrong for doing this, because let's just face it, matters of the heart can put people in lengthy time frames of hope, delusional hope, really. We're all guilty of letting hope overpower our sense. Simply, "hoping for the best," for too long, on something that isn't even making progress? Has BIG potential to fuck your mind up, and certain aspects of who you are, as a whole. 

Depending on how deep the situation is. The power of learning lessons, is exactly that - POWER. Through learning, you're able to apply the changes, from the mistake, or off choice that led you to learn that particular lesson. If you so choose to not learn a motherfuckin' thing - than expect to make that same mistake, repetitively, for only God knows how long. 

When it comes to matters of the heart, I am under no delusions. I spent years in "hoping for the best," and then have gradually learned over the years, that the heart and mind are supposed to work together, alongside reality - NOT separately. No optimism, no pessimism. Just stay far away from letting those pesky delusions and daydreams conquer the realism that you truly receive when your heart and mind work together. That being said....

The general example is a hot stove, if you touch it once, you know it's hot, you don't do it again. I think it's a lame ass example, because yeah it's a fuckin' stove, and who wants to burn the fuck outta their hand, anyway? See, in that case, I say that some of us, those of us that are more stubborn to accept things than others? See, we will KEEP touching the "stove," just to make SURE it's still hot, and still going to hurt us....Put it this way, me & that stove? We aren't cool, anymore. I've finally learned that nothing I will ever do, in this life, or any other life, will change the fact that it's ohfuckingshitHOT - and that stove can't help but to BE hot and hurt me, because that's what the fuck it does.... 

I shouldn't of used the stove example, because stoves help me make bangin' as food, so they do serve a purpose, and now i'm over here thinkin' about food, and not life lessons, and well.... fuck, LOL.

THE POINT FUCKIN' IS - 

It's ALWAYS in your best interest to learn the lesson in front of you as they come and IMMEDIATELY apply what you learned from it, to your life. It's ALWAYS in your best interest to stay realistic, no matter what & keep the "hoping," elsewhere, and ALWAYS make sure your mind & heart are working TOGETHER, because it's when they're working separately that shit gets clusterfucked. If the same shit keeps happening to you, to your life? You keep letting it. If you're unhappy? Then you have to change that. If you're holding out, "hoping," for somebody to change, because in your mind, "that'll fix everything," - than you're in for a long ass ride of disappointment. I'm speaking from a position of knowledge, people. I don't say this shit because i'm trying to Dr. Phil not one of ya'll - I say it because it's my truth. Moving forward is some easy shit to want, we all want that - but it's even easier to stay in stagnant water because hope has you stuck in concrete . Stay realistic, learn the lessons, no matter how good or bad it may make you feel, and simplify your life. Nobody can do that shit for you, so quit your bitchin'.

"Empowering Minds of Women."

"Empowering Minds of Women."


Lets get serious on this one....


     It's so easy for people to get caught up in the drama, and situations that different females offer each other  Pure fuckery, with basic bitches. We've all dealt with it. But, if you're not careful, you may wind up completely shutting out all females, and then never get to experience the bonds that women can have with each other  when they're able to get passed the fuckery and blend minds with each other on a level, that differs for everybody, but can have an insanely high potential of being so mutually beneficial, it's almost un-explainable  If you aren't open to growing and learning from each other  as females - you're missing out.

   Don't get it twisted, I definitely have a general dislike towards females. That being said, I am definitely not so closed off and closed minded that I can't recognize when i'm in the presence of a good woman. With so few broads worth the time a day breathing in this area, when I come across one of those rare types? It's impossible for me to overlook, that shit is rare, like unicorn rare. Because I have experienced this, I am going to dig deep on it, because so many of ya'll are missing the fuck out.

  People say, "the grass ain't always greener on the other side." My stock answer for that is, "The grass is greener on whichever side you're fuckin' watering." ( Feel me? ) Lately, i've been putting forth time, effort, energy, understanding and raw emotion into a quickly appreciated bond with a fellow ovary owner. I can't remember a time where i've been able to meet a female on such intense levels, on so many levels, on childhood shit, on growing up, on so many things. Most women just don't take the time to listen to each other  to learn about each other  to learn FROM each other - they'd rather classify every woman as they do every other woman who has negatively effected them at some point in life. Me? Shit, i've learned a lot about myself this year, but I learned a lot in the last fuckin' week. I wouldn't of been able to make these achievements within myself, had it not of been for her & I's full, factual disclosures to each other and pure honesty, in the interest of, "keepin' it real," and being understood.

   Women can empower each other  and unless you experience it, than you just can't appreciate it. I said yesterday, "Strength is Contagious," and that's because it is. When two grown women can sit together, and drop life stories on each other  and first offer a legitimate hand of understanding? That shit is beautiful. The thing is, so many women don't get to have something like this, because they're too concerned with being judged, and truth be told, most women just aren't up for taking advice from another female, or they let their pride get in the way of listening to each other  Not hearing, but fuckin' listening. I am thankful that I have allowed this new bond into my life, because when you do, you learn so much about yourself, and you get that, through the willingness to bare all, keep it real, have no doors or locks on your mind, and embrace that as females? We been through a lot of the same shit. Women can serve such impacting purposes in each others lives, that it's a shame that more women can't wrap their mind around this. 

   I mean, check it out - I believe that when women create bonds, that it's imperative and so so fuckin' vital, to never slip on each other  The most simple fumble can fuck an otherwise perfect relationship. But, the thing is, is there's never a good reason to destroy such a rare bond, anyway. The older I get, the fewer authentic friendships I have, and the less I even want.  So, in my World, when I actually allow somebody in? That's a big deal. In the last week I have allowed myself to be 100% open to putting everything I am, and her, everything she is, on the table - learning about each other  and from each other  learning about ourselves. I have allowed myself to be effected. Which that's where so many go wrong, in many different kinds of relationships, they refuse to be effected - don't realize that sometimes, letting someone, "get under your skin," is NOT a bad thing, in some cases, it's the BEST thing. I believe in female friendships, where one lacks, the other picks up for them, and vice versa. One's strength can over power, silence and change the other's weaknesses. It sounds really simple, to maintain something like this, and it's not - in order to even embark on a bond like this, you first have to have the uncanny ability to keep it real with yourself. If you can't do that, then you won't be able to experience the empowerment that gets fabulously tossed back and forth in that bond. And if you honestly, don't have the ability to keep it real with yourself, than you aren't in a position to respect the responsibility that comes with appreciating and protecting that bond.

  Basically - there is so much that we, as females, experience, and learn on our own - experiences that mold us, change us, fuck us up & make us better. But, there is this whole other world of experiences, that are deeply emotional, and mind/life altering that you can ONLY get by quite literally allowing yourself to be humble, and allowing yourself to be vulnerable and as hard and at most times, risky, you have to allow yourself to trust each other.

Lemme just say? It's been YEARS since i've experienced this. Difference is, now? I'm older, life has happened, so many factors have changed my paths, or switched me back on the right now - and to be real? Both of our willingness to be 100% and both of our appreciation for just how fuckin' rare this type of bond is? Shit, we're blessed - and I strongly suggest for women to never rule out the power they can have on each others lives...

Good Advice.....So, take it.

Blog Time!

Tonight I have decided to request some creative 
juices from my girl, Cassie. So, I asked her to give 
me 3 topics to blog on & they are : 

1 - "Empowering Minds of Women."
2 - "The Power of Lessons Learned."
3 - "Scallywags & TwatWaffles."

So, here I go.