"Empowering Minds of Women."

"Empowering Minds of Women."


Lets get serious on this one....


     It's so easy for people to get caught up in the drama, and situations that different females offer each other  Pure fuckery, with basic bitches. We've all dealt with it. But, if you're not careful, you may wind up completely shutting out all females, and then never get to experience the bonds that women can have with each other  when they're able to get passed the fuckery and blend minds with each other on a level, that differs for everybody, but can have an insanely high potential of being so mutually beneficial, it's almost un-explainable  If you aren't open to growing and learning from each other  as females - you're missing out.

   Don't get it twisted, I definitely have a general dislike towards females. That being said, I am definitely not so closed off and closed minded that I can't recognize when i'm in the presence of a good woman. With so few broads worth the time a day breathing in this area, when I come across one of those rare types? It's impossible for me to overlook, that shit is rare, like unicorn rare. Because I have experienced this, I am going to dig deep on it, because so many of ya'll are missing the fuck out.

  People say, "the grass ain't always greener on the other side." My stock answer for that is, "The grass is greener on whichever side you're fuckin' watering." ( Feel me? ) Lately, i've been putting forth time, effort, energy, understanding and raw emotion into a quickly appreciated bond with a fellow ovary owner. I can't remember a time where i've been able to meet a female on such intense levels, on so many levels, on childhood shit, on growing up, on so many things. Most women just don't take the time to listen to each other  to learn about each other  to learn FROM each other - they'd rather classify every woman as they do every other woman who has negatively effected them at some point in life. Me? Shit, i've learned a lot about myself this year, but I learned a lot in the last fuckin' week. I wouldn't of been able to make these achievements within myself, had it not of been for her & I's full, factual disclosures to each other and pure honesty, in the interest of, "keepin' it real," and being understood.

   Women can empower each other  and unless you experience it, than you just can't appreciate it. I said yesterday, "Strength is Contagious," and that's because it is. When two grown women can sit together, and drop life stories on each other  and first offer a legitimate hand of understanding? That shit is beautiful. The thing is, so many women don't get to have something like this, because they're too concerned with being judged, and truth be told, most women just aren't up for taking advice from another female, or they let their pride get in the way of listening to each other  Not hearing, but fuckin' listening. I am thankful that I have allowed this new bond into my life, because when you do, you learn so much about yourself, and you get that, through the willingness to bare all, keep it real, have no doors or locks on your mind, and embrace that as females? We been through a lot of the same shit. Women can serve such impacting purposes in each others lives, that it's a shame that more women can't wrap their mind around this. 

   I mean, check it out - I believe that when women create bonds, that it's imperative and so so fuckin' vital, to never slip on each other  The most simple fumble can fuck an otherwise perfect relationship. But, the thing is, is there's never a good reason to destroy such a rare bond, anyway. The older I get, the fewer authentic friendships I have, and the less I even want.  So, in my World, when I actually allow somebody in? That's a big deal. In the last week I have allowed myself to be 100% open to putting everything I am, and her, everything she is, on the table - learning about each other  and from each other  learning about ourselves. I have allowed myself to be effected. Which that's where so many go wrong, in many different kinds of relationships, they refuse to be effected - don't realize that sometimes, letting someone, "get under your skin," is NOT a bad thing, in some cases, it's the BEST thing. I believe in female friendships, where one lacks, the other picks up for them, and vice versa. One's strength can over power, silence and change the other's weaknesses. It sounds really simple, to maintain something like this, and it's not - in order to even embark on a bond like this, you first have to have the uncanny ability to keep it real with yourself. If you can't do that, then you won't be able to experience the empowerment that gets fabulously tossed back and forth in that bond. And if you honestly, don't have the ability to keep it real with yourself, than you aren't in a position to respect the responsibility that comes with appreciating and protecting that bond.

  Basically - there is so much that we, as females, experience, and learn on our own - experiences that mold us, change us, fuck us up & make us better. But, there is this whole other world of experiences, that are deeply emotional, and mind/life altering that you can ONLY get by quite literally allowing yourself to be humble, and allowing yourself to be vulnerable and as hard and at most times, risky, you have to allow yourself to trust each other.

Lemme just say? It's been YEARS since i've experienced this. Difference is, now? I'm older, life has happened, so many factors have changed my paths, or switched me back on the right now - and to be real? Both of our willingness to be 100% and both of our appreciation for just how fuckin' rare this type of bond is? Shit, we're blessed - and I strongly suggest for women to never rule out the power they can have on each others lives...

Good Advice.....So, take it.