3 Lessons I wish i'd learned earlier in life.

3 Lessons I wish i'd learned earlier in life.

1 - Your Credit Score.

    I think one of my many awesome suggestions for child molding, should involve some knowledge and well, some fear about *dun dun dunnnnn* CREDIT. I mean, let's be serious. A good percentage of teenagers are like, "So, you're going to give me this card, with this limit, and I can walk out with this TA-DAY? GettttTheFuckOuttaHeaaaa." LOL. I think if, as kids, it's drilled into their minds how so very important keeping your credit straight IS, then that would really help 'em out in the future. Because once it's fucked, it's really just not an easy task to fix. Shit, I think it should be mandatory in schools to learn about it, early on, and throughout school. Hey,l just a suggestion. But, it's something I wish I knew and feared years ago. I've never had a credit card ( and let's thank Jesus for that. ) but i've done my store card shit, and it wasn't a good idea. 

2 - "How they treat you, is how they feel about you."


     They say everyone deserves 2nd chances. And well, no, they actually don't. Not for everything. See, yes, people make mistakes, and in life, or jobs, and choices, in a lot of cases, yes you do deserve a 2nd chance, as long as you're willing to make changes, chances should definitely be readily available, BUT - when it's chances you're giving to another person who has exhibited pure recklessness TOWARDS your life? No, they just don't. No, it's not "3 strikes you're out," it's "Well, ya fucked that up." People just don't go around hurting eachother on accident. We're adults. It's a choice, it's a choice to put yourself in a position to do so. If they keep treating you like shit, then that's purely how they feel about you. Words mean shit. Actions always speak volumes much higher than the bullshit that can be spewed from the mouths of others. "Why do they treat me so badly?" Because they want to. They choose to, and that's that.

3 - Trust, the right way.

    For SO LONG I was the person, like many others, who would say, "i'll trust you, until you give me a reason not to." Well, that's all wrong. Years ago, I realized it's "I don't trust you, until you give me a reason TO trust you." It just works way better. If I would of adapted to this thought process way before I did, it would of truly avoided me so much fuckery, I can't even BE-GIN to tell you just how much shit i'd of avoided. In fact, just trusting people, is one of the most ridiculously careless things to do! ( Yeah i'm over here sounding like i've got some trust issues, and best fuckin' believe, I got 'em. I own it, and i'll keep 'em. ) Learning it earlier in life would of definitely benefited my future, on all ends.


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Well, that's all I got this morning.
Gunna go play some Bingo and figure my weekend out.
Enjoy it, all!